A Hidden Struggle Behind Closed Doors
Ashling Podmore’s experience highlights a form of abuse often overlooked: the subtle, controlling relationships that leave no visible scars. Outwardly, her life seemed stable, but beneath the surface, she was trapped in a situation that gradually eroded her sense of self. The abuse she endured was psychological and emotional, difficult for others to recognise and even harder to escape.
The Courage to Leave and Start Anew
Podmore’s decision to leave was fraught with fear and uncertainty. With two young children and limited resources, she faced the daunting prospect of rebuilding their lives from scratch. Moving into a council house with minimal financial means, she confronted the harsh realities many survivors of abuse face. Despite these challenges, she describes leaving as the most terrifying yet vital step she took for the wellbeing of her children.
Creating Resources for Children in Similar Situations
Recognising a gap in support, particularly for children caught between two homes, Podmore took the initiative to write children’s books addressing the complex emotions and experiences these young ones face. Her writing is characterised by gentle language and a lack of blame, aiming to help children understand their circumstances in a compassionate way. These books have gained traction in professional settings, including Liverpool Family Court’s family room, demonstrating their practical value.
Building a Community and Sharing Her Story
From her background as a Kumon tutor, Podmore has developed the No More Supply movement, which has grown to encompass over 53,000 members. This community provides a space for survivors and those affected by controlling relationships to find support and solidarity. Her memoir, It Will All Come Right In The End, set for publication on 22 June 2026 by Smithfield Publishing, offers a candid narrative of her journey. It details how control was exerted over her, the complexities of leaving, and the additional dangers that arose when she sought safety for herself and her children.
Focus on Healing and Protection for Children
Podmore emphasises that her primary concern throughout has been the children. She wrote the book she needed during her darkest moments, hoping it would serve as a beacon for others in similar situations. Her intention is to validate the experiences of those who may feel isolated or unsure and to illuminate a path towards recovery. Early responses to her memoir highlight its emotional resonance, with readers appreciating its blend of honesty, humour, and hope.
Availability and Further Information
It Will All Come Right In The End will be available in paperback and ebook formats from 22 June 2026. It can be purchased through Amazon at the following link: https://a.co/d/0j2oL2qd. Podmore’s forthcoming appearance at a local domestic abuse conference will further contribute to raising awareness and providing support within the community.